Uh huh... PLEASE go down to your local superior court and sit there for a few hours... Watch grown men leave in tears... THEN tell me you know anything about being victimized by women. You get married, you sign up for a beatign in the judicial system. It will only be your good fortune that saves you cos when women get married, they expect you to be the "perfect husband" they always dreamed about, and when you are not... Hell hath no fury like a woman that chose a "bad" husband.
AS IT JUST SO HAPPENS, I HAVE BEEN THERE.. AND COULDN'T DISAGREE MORE WITH YOUR CHARACTERIZATION.. WHAT I HAVE SEEN IS PEOPLE EITHER ACTING LIKE GROWN UPS TRYING TO MOVE FORWARD WITH THEIR LIVES.. OR I'VE SEEN MEN ACTING ALL BAD-ASS AND PISSED OFF, AND A WOMAN EITHER BEING OBNOXIOUS AND PIGHEADED, OR CRYING..
Yeah? With till you get sued over and over by a relentless bitch who would rather give every penny in "child support" to her attorney to "punish" you for not turning out to be prince charming and ruining her life. It does NOT take two to make a protracted legal nightmare.
HERE'S WHAT I'VE BEEN TOLD ABOUT THE LEGAL SYSTEM IN FAMILY MATTERS.. THERE IS A FRAMEWORK WITHIN WHICH SUPPORT, CUSTODY AND THAT KIND OF THING IS DEALT WITH BY THE COURTS.. MODIFICATION PROBABLY GOES ON, BUT I DON'T THINK IT'S LIKE GETTING SUED OVER AND OVER.. I KNOW A GUY WHO WENT THROUGH IT.. AT THE END OF THE DAY, THERE WERE GUIDELINES, AND THERE WAS ONLY SO MUCH BLOOD HIS EX- COULD SQUEEZE FROM HIS STONES.
That is true. People are people. The part you are missing is that women are viscious and meaner than junkyard dogs. Once they have your bals in the legal system they do things men would not think about in 100yrs of being "Pigheaded".
FAR AS I'VE BEEN TOLD, THE "LEGAL SYSTEM" IS A FINITE PROCESS.. BALLS ONLY HAVE SO LONG TO ENDURE IT, UNLESS THE MAN WANTS TO START SWINGING THEM AROUND TRYING TO BASH PEOPLE WITH THEM.. OTHERWISE, THE LEGAL PROCESS RUNS ITS COURSE.. MEN AND WOMEN BOTH LIE, SO THEY CAN RESTART THE PROCESS OVER AND OVER, BUT I READ SOMEWHERE THAT JUDGES WILL GET PISSED RELATIVELY QUICK WHEN THEY SEE THAT ABUSIVE PRACTICE GOING ON A COUPLE TIMES.
Take for example, russian bride #27364539 from backandbeyondyestan. Finds sucker, marries sucker, gets green card. ONE DAY later files for divorce. Sucker panics, she takes everything she owns, house cars everything. and I mean every penny. But wait theres more...
MAN, THAT RUSSIAN BRIDE MUST BE ONE SHARP COOKIE! I TOOK A PRE-LAW COURSE, AND THOUGHT THEY SAID IN CHAPTER 2 THAT DURATION OF MARRIAGE OFTEN IS A PRETTY SIGNIFICANT FACTOR IN PROPERTY DIVISION IN A LOT OF JURISDICTIONS.. OR MAYBE THAT WAS QUALITY OF SEX?? MAYBE THAT RUSSIAN BRIDE HAD AN AWESOME ATTORNEY OR SOMETHING.. DAMN, GETTING ALL THE PRE-MARITAL ASSETS AFTER ONE DAY OF MARRIAGE!! IT'S AMAZING THAT LEGAL ANNULMENTS DON'T EXIST BASED ON FRAUD IN THAT CIRCUMSTANCE..
This sociopath then finds sucker #2 and gets herself pregnant (must have been an accident... yah right) then, while pregnant dumps his ass and shacks up with wealthy target #3, a passive lap dog of a man with a good business.
Meanwhile, this babies dad is accused of abuse, neglect, sexual misconduct, deviancy, alcoholism, promiscuity and just about every other baseless lie you can think of. He has supervised visitation for 3 years with his daughter.
DAMN, THIS LADY IS GOOD! NOW SHE IS MAKING UP OUTRAGEOUS AND INCREDIBLE LIES ABOUT PERSON NUMBER TWO WHILE SHACKING UP WITH PERSON NUMBER THREE!! HOW INGENIOUS SHE MUST BE TO BE ABLE TO CONCEAL ALL THOSE ASSETS AND HER DEVIOUS PLAN FROM ALL THESE POOR SAPS IN HER WAKE.. YOU'D THINK SUCKER #1 AND SUCKER #2 WOULD HAVE CONNECTED AND PUT THEIR HEADS TOGETHER TO STOP THIS TRAVESTY OF JUSTICE.. THEN AGAIN, IT ISN'T LIKE MOST DOCKETS ARE PUBLIC RECORD, AVAILABLE TO ANYONE WITH AN INTERNET CONNECTION, SO I GUESS THAT WOULD NEVER HAPPEN..
Like most younger men, you have no idea how rough it gets, and when the shit hits the fan, all your "friends" will not want to listen to word one of this cos it is Soooooo FUGIN NEGATIVE it bums out anyone within 10sec. In fact you will become the walking dead and your ex will poisen all your mutual friends into thinking you are an abusive child molester.
YEAH, i GUESS SOMEDAY I'LL HAVE TO ACCEPT REALITY.. I SUPPOSE IT IS JUST A MATTER OF TIME UNTIL MY WIFE WILL TAKE ALL MY POSSESSIONS, KIDS AND DOG AND MOVE IN WITH BRAD PITT OR SOMETHING.. AND ACCUSE ME OF MOLESTING NEIGHBORHOOD CATS AND LUSTING AFTER USED WASHCLOTHS.. I PROBABLY SHOULD START HATING LIFE, AND STEEL MYSELF TO THE FACT THAT WOMEN ARE THE DEVIL, AND ANY RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE STRICTLY ABOUT GETTING MY PIECE OF ASS AND DITCHING THE BROAD BEFORE SHE GETS ME.. CAUSE IT'S A COMIN'!
So like I said, you dont know what you have UNTIL you go through a break up. THEN and only then will you find out.
MAN, I GETTING SORT OF DEPRESSED.
Where???? I am all ears...