First thing, hats off to couple who get married and stay married. I hoped to be in one of these, but my first marriage was a clusterfuck. She was controlling, I was never happy, she took me for a lot of money I made back in the good days. The divorce took 9 or 10 months, I thought that bitch would NEVER leave! Two fond memories: walking out of court after the divorce trial and feeling free, and walking back into my empty house after she left. Now my second marriage is 100% the opposite, she is my love, and my best friend! Almost 9 years of great times!