Rainbows and puppy dog tails? Not hardly. I've been online for over 30 years, am one of the most cynical people you're ever likely to meet, and know much better than that. Even so, it's disturbing when the knee-jerk assumption is that I'm a "bad guy". I believe that it's possible for a reasonable amount of caution to co-exist with civility, even online.
My squaw is busy grinding corn - she doesn't have time to eat box!
Ken