Oh man..... Would love to hear the two exs version of all this ....got married, had my daughter, got divorced and then my ex husband and I had our son. I was stupid but my kids will always be worth it.I’ve had a fucked up situation. I have every intention of paying back those I owe. Paychecks have been gone the moment I get them to cover gas and a room and food as well as now getting my car fixed. My situation isn’t ideal but I won’t be stuck in it for long. I can’t get state assistance as according to them, “I make too much” which doesn’t make sense considering I’m broke almost instantly. Every time I think I’m getting a step ahead I fall back 10. I am only in this situation now because my stepfather put his hands on me and I called the cops on him which I got kicked out of the house for. Ever since rob, I don’t hold back or refrain from standing up to anyone who is abusive towards me. Regardless of who it is. I have learned my lesson from that.